I just spent the first half of my day from like 6:30 am until 2ish on a pilgrimage from where I live in Kansas City, MO to Olathe, KS. I grabbed like 3 buses to get to the other side of the city to see the movie Perks Of Being A Wallflower. Here in Kansas City we aren't considered a sophisticated bunch so any time a movie is in limited release we only have a tiny chance of it making it here.
I have to say thank you to AMC 30 in Olathe, KS for getting the movie as they were the only theater in the metro area that got it.
I have never read the book because I have the attention span of something that has no attention span. I knew this was a coming of age story but I knew it was a hard core one not like the typical "boy meets girl and they live happily ever after in the end story." This movie has a very central theme of childhood trauma which a few people have criticized as "not that realistic" but it's been my experience growing that almost everyone without exception I knew has exposed to some form of trauma. Lots of people I know now and that I knew growing up were either exposed to or were victims of violence, sexual abuse, neglect, emotional abuse etc. ... I don't think the United States understand what a center of abuse the American family is because it is the way we live and "normal" to us.
This film is centered around a high school freshman, Charlie, played by
Logan Lerman from Percy Jackson, The Three Musketeers, and tons of other movies. I have liked most of his movies to date but this 20 y/o took this part to whole new level. Without giving too much away he enters high school having just lost a childhood friend to suicide and has been very withdrawn into depression to the point where he just has like zero friends. Through a bit of personal bravery and a little fate he meets Sam and her step brother Patrick who are both concealing a lot of personal pain also.
Emma Watson
of Harry Potter fame and
Ezra Miller play those characters and are unforgettable.
Charlie's depression takes a turn for the better as he instantly bonds with his new friends but a roller coaster ride awaits him along with a horrible crippling issue from his past.
Fifteen minutes into this movie I was 15 years old all over again and miserable. There were two points in the movie where I laughed in the middle of crying. I was really shaken up by this movie to the point where I was literally shaking when I left the theater.
I cannot stress how good this movie is and what a huge emotional impact it had on me. I really could have used this movie like 20 years ago.